stainless steel is the matte STEEL that spoons are usually made of. sterling silver is the shiny SILVER that Tiffany's jewelry is made out of. there is a big difference between these two materials as silver is much more valuable than steel. if you want to buy a sturdy everyday bracelet, buy a sterling silver Tiffany's bracelet. It will last you a long time. silver can tarnish but you can polish it.